My Planning Guide
HOW I WANT TO BE REMEMBERED

Legacy Tree Funeral Planning
Personal History
My Planning Guide is designed to guide you and those close to you through the funeral planning process. By recording vital information and personal preferences now, you ease the burden for your loved ones. If you have questions regarding any aspect of funeral planning, ask your funeral planning professional.
Vital Statistics
Armed Forces
Children, Relatives, and Friends
Use this section to record children, siblings, grandchildren, and friends.
Contact 1
Contact 2
Contact 3
Contact 4
Contact 5
Important Information for Your Family's Use
Financial Information
Banking
Credit Cards
Mortgage
Pension/Retirement Plans
Insurance (Homeowners, Health, Life, Auto, etc.)
Social Media Profiles
Location of Important Documents
My Preferences
This section enables you and your family to keep track of which arrangements have been made and which remain to be determined.
Memorial Instructions
Cemetery Instructions
The preceding information represents my desires for my funeral and burial arrangements. As of this date, I prefer that my family only spend $ for these plans.
Cost Estimate Sheet
I understand that this estimate sheet does not represent items bought or sold and is not a contract to do so. These figures represent only an estimate of the costs of my funeral preferences at today's prices.
Section I: Services
Funeral package, describe: | |
For details, please refer to a copy of the General Price List. | |
Basic services of funeral director and staff | |
Transfer of deceased to funeral home | miles @ $ per mile |
Embalming | |
Other preparation of the body | |
Use of facilities and staff for viewing | days @ $ |
Use of facilities and staff for ceremony | |
Use of equipment and staff for ceremony | |
Funeral coach | |
Family car | no @ $ each |
Other, please specify | |
Subtotal: Section I | $ |
Section II: Merchandise
Casket | |
Name | |
Description | |
Interior fabric and color | |
Exterior material and color | |
Gauge weight (where applicable) | |
Outer Burial Container | |
Name | |
Description | |
Other Merchandise | |
Alternative container | |
Urn | |
Marker | |
Memorial package | |
Subtotal: Section II | $ |
Section III: Miscellaneous Items
Memorial package | |
Obituary notices | |
Death certificates | copies @ $ per copy |
Flowers | |
Clergy honorarium | |
Musician honorarium | |
Reception | |
Grave opening and closing | |
Setting fees | |
Sales tax | |
Other | |
Subtotal: Section III | $ |
Subtotal: Sections I and II | $ |
Total: Sections I, II, and III | $ |
Payment Options:
Single Premium | $ |
One-Year | $ per month |
Three-Year | $ per month |
Five-Year | $ per month |
Important Information
Social Security
If you are working and paying into Social Security, some of the Social Security taxes you pay are applied toward survivor benefits. The amount of these benefits will be determined by Social Security.
To file a claim or for answers to your specific questions, contact the nearest Social Security office or call (800) 772-1213 between the hours of 7 a.m. and 7 p.m., Monday-Friday. Free informative publications are available at your local office or on the internet at www.ssa.gov.
Veterans Administration
If you are an honorably discharged veteran, your survivors may be eligible for a range of benefits, such as burial flag, presidential memorial certificate, marker for the grave or niche, and burial allowances. Information on a variety of topics may be obtained by calling (800) 827-1000 or by visiting www.va.gov.
Federal Employees
Survivors of employees of the federal government may be eligible for a wide range of benefits, including group life insurance, annuities, and health insurance continuation. For answers to specific questions, you can contact the Office of Personnel Management at (888) 767-6738 or visit www.opm.gov.
Will
This document specifies what is to be done with your property when you die and names your executor or personal representative. You can also use your will to name a guardian for your children. Wills must be handled through a process known as "probate."
Probate
Simply stated, probate is the court process following a person's death that includes:
- Proving the authenticity of the deceased person's will
- Appointing someone to handle the deceased person's affairs
- Identifying the deceased person's property
- Paying debts and taxes
- Identifying heirs
- Distributing the deceased person's property according to the will, or state law if there is no will.
Living Trust
This form of a trust can be set up during your life. Living trusts are an excellent way to avoid the cost and hassle of probate because the property you transfer into the trust passes directly to the beneficiaries after you die. The successor trustee - the person you appoint to handle the trust after your death - simply transfers ownership to the beneficiaries.
Power of Attorney
This document gives another person legal authority to act on your behalf. If you create such a document, you are called the "principle," and the person to whom you give this authority is called your "attorney-in-fact." If you make a durable power of attorney, the document will remain in effect if you become incapacitated.
Living Will
This legal document states your wishes about medical treatments and life-prolonging procedures. It takes effect if you are unable to communicate your healthcare decisions. A living will may also be called a healthcare directive, advanced directive, or directive to physicians. Laws vary from state to state, check with your state's authorities.
Life Insurance
This contract states that an insurance company agrees to pay money to a designated beneficiary upon the death of the policy holder. In exchange, the policyholder pays a regularly scheduled fee, known as a premium. The purpose of life insurance is to provide financial support to those who survive the policyholder, such as family members or business partners. When the policyholder dies, the insurance proceeds pass to the beneficiaries free of probate, although they may be counted for federal estate tax purposes.
Prearranged Funeral Plan
This is a contract in which a funeral establishment agrees to provide merchandise and services upon the death of the contract beneficiary. The plan provides not only the funding for the funeral, but also allows individuals the opportunity to specify their wishes for the funeral ceremony and merchandise.
Funeral or Memorial Service
Whether you or your loved one have chosen burial or cremation, the funeral or memorial service fills an important role by:
- Celebrating, honoring, and recognizing the life of the deceased
- Giving family and friends the chance to say goodbye
- Providing closure after the loss of a loved one
- Presenting an opportunity for friends and family to console each other
Many details and decisions must be made when a death occurs. When you arrange them in advance, you can plan what you want and minimize stress on your loved ones. For example, you can plan where your funeral will be held and the style of the ceremony. You can indicate whether you prefer friends and family to gather informally and share their feelings and memories. Favorite music and photographs can be selected.
Obituary
An obituary is not only a notice of a death, but it also can tell the life story of the deceased, provide funeral information, and request memorial donations.
An obituary can paint an expansive picture of the deceased's life, but at a minimum it should list:
- Full name and age
- Place of residence
- Time and place of death
- Cause of death (optional)
- Date and place of birth
- Parents' names, including mother's maiden name
- Date and place of marriage
- Birth name of spouse
- Education and occupation
- Military service
- Social organizations (optional)
- List of surviving family, starting with closest relations. Place spouses' names inside brackets.
- Service details
- Special message or requests for memorials
- Photo (optional)
Your funeral home can help you write, format, and publish an obituary.
Personal Thoughts for My Obituary
Additional Notes
For more information on prepaid funeral benefit contracts in Texas, visit prepaidfuneralstexas.gov.
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